Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Miracles Do Happen

Tonight I was teaching a voice lesson when Jillise came RUNNING downstairs hysterically screaming. Jaren had fallen out of the window. The second story toyroom window. The window that I have been nervous about ever since he has been big enough to climb on things. I guess he was standing on something and leaning on the screen and it gave way and he went with it.

I went tearing out the door, trying to prepare myself for what I might see. What I saw was Jaren pushing himself up on his arms, crying that he was poopy. I scooped him up and brought him inside where I could look him over for broken bones or bleeding. He could move all his fingers and toes, he was talking, there was no blood. Brian was home teaching and could not be reached ANYWHERE. (Tomorrow he is having his phone surgically adhered to his hip.) I called his companions wife, who sent over her mother in law, who is a nurse. She did a quick exam, then suggested that we go to the ER just to be safe, but that everything looked good in her opinion. Jaren was in a bit of shock. He was really shaky and couldn't stand up. My voice students mom came over and volunteered to ride to the ER with me to keep Jaren awake. Her daughter stayed with my girls (poor Jillise was in hysterics still). I said a prayer with the girls and with Jaren that everything would be okay. Our home teacher lives around the corner, so he came over and gave Jaren a blessing. He blessed him that all would be well physically and that there would be no lasting emotional or bodily trauma.

We got to the ER and got taken right back to a room. Jaren was more awake by now and was talking and moving around. He was able to walk for the doctor. They pushed and prodded and rubs and looked. He didn't even have a SCRATCH on him. Literally. No broken skin. The doctor ordered a CAT scan to be safe. Jaren was SO good during the scan. He stayed still and we sang Popcorn Popping. The doctor said he gets the best kid of the year award. The scan came back normal and we are back home -- three hours after it all started.

I went back to the side of the house to get a better look. He landed on dirt. It has been raining, so the dirt was very soft. Six inches away from where he landed is a retaining wall made of railroad ties. Six inches to the right is the metal air conditioning unit. He landed in just the right way, in just the right place that everything is fine. He is safe. He is upstairs reading books with Brian (who I'm sure was very shocked to come home to find my voice student and the neighbor sitting on the couch, with hysterical girls, no son, and no wife).

I am so grateful for a Heavenly Father who watches out for us. Who not only protected my son, but placed people around me who could help when I was too panicked to know what to do. For a home teacher who was home and worthy to come give him a blessing at the drop of a hat when my husband could not be reached. I know I am blessed. My brain keeps going over what COULD have been and I just want to throw up. I still just might.

Hug your little ones tonight. You never know what could happen in the blink of an eye.

30 comments:

Elder Caleb Habel said...

OH paige you just lived one my worst(sp?)fears. I am SO glad he is okay. What an absolute miracle!!! Are you okay?

Sariah English said...

OH my gosh! I about threw up I was so upset! I am so thankful he is okay! That is a mirical! I can't wait to hug and kiss him in tomorrow!

Michelle said...

I'm so glad he's OK! That's one tough little guy you've got there. I hope you get some rest today, you must have burned through a years worth of adrenaline last night!

Tiffini said...

Wow--that made me cry just thinking about the horror you must have been feeling. I am so glad that he had an angel to catch him.

Melinda said...

I sooooo believe that Heavenly Father watches out for us. I have never had anything as dramatic happen in our family, but even little things testify to me that we are loved and watched out for.

I am so happy that everything is ok. Poor Jillese will probably be the one who it affects the most.

Lots of love!

Aundrea said...

I know Jaren is just fine and probably walking proud 'cause he's the toughest kid around!

I'm feeling for you and Jillese!! Things like that are so scary. I'm glad everything's okay and that people were there to help!

If you're anything like me, I'm calm during the storm and then when you get home from the ER you go take a shower so you can bawl your eyes out:)

Galloping Grandparents (GG) said...

What Jillise didn't see was the angel that caught him midflight and carried him down to the dirt!!! That is one scarystory for the journal. Of course you got pictures...........

Lara Neves said...

That is so scary! Is there anything you can do about the window so it doesn't happen again? Although, he'll probably stay away on his own now. Poor guy. Poor mom. I am glad all turned out well, but still i know you are probably going to freak out about it for days.

Shannon b said...

oh my goodness Paige, that is so scary! What a tremendous relief that he is OKAY. Oh, I would have been terrified too. We also have some low windows in our playroom that I worry about - yikes.
I'm glad you had so many helping hands closeby.

Jodi said...

What a nightmare! I am shaking as I read this. So sorry that you had to go through this but so happy you received a miracle and that Jaren is happy and healthy! What a blessing.

Anonymous said...

yikes- i am so happy he is ok now. that is so scary!!

Megan said...

I imagine his angels (which are likely relatives who've passed on) were really on guard last night. No doubt in my mind he was protected. And he may even be able to recognize it (like a comfortable feeling while falling or something).

One ER doctor once told us, "Well, don't worry too much. Kids bounce!" Ah the seasoned (or jaded) wisdom of the docs at Provo's hospital.

So glad you're all doing ok. *hugs*

Anonymous said...

So glad he's okay, Paige. Hoping Jillise is, too.

Jill said...

Oh that gave me goosebumps. I'm so glad that he is okay and everything worked out smoothly. God is good!

Anonymous said...

It was a day for angels and miracles, wasn't it? I'm so glad he is okay!

Rochelle said...

I'm so glad he is alright. I got the chills reading this and my eyes are misty. I can't imagine going throw that scare.
I love you and I'm so glad he's okay!

Toshia said...

So glad that everything turned out okay! I don't know what I would have done...will definitly take your advice though and hug the little ones:)

Candy said...

oh paige I am so sorry! Your worst nightmare! I hope that he is still doing ok. Angels were watching out for him for sure! Thanks for sharing, so that all of us mothers can learn from you experience.

Karla and Mike said...

It always amazes me how quickly things can happen that can change our day, or our lives. One minute everything is fine, and then next everything is so not-fine. I had that feeling when you called and told us Megan was in the emergency room. These experiences scare us silly, but help to remind us how much we really love each other and how we don't want to lose those we love...not in this life, and certainly not in the next life. Your family has been given a tender mercy. As Jaren's grandma, I wish I could just put my arms around him and give him a big squeeze. (And then maybe chew him out for giving us all such a scare!)

Polliwog said...

I have tears right now--that is SO nightmarish. Miracle. No better word for it. Thank you for sharing and strengthening our faith.

Nicole said...

I just can't even imagine how terrifying that was when you heard what had happened to him. What a MIRACLE!! Oh, I am so happy he escaped unschathed! He might just be a little sore the next couple of days though. So sorry you had to go through the scare.

Kaylene said...

Wow! (((HUGS))) I'm so glad everything turned out OK!

Emily said...

Totally bawling right now!!! Seriously, what a miracle! I can't even think of what COULD have happened. What a little trooper, to be so brave through all of that - you and Jaren both! I'm re-baby-proofing the house right now and was just looking at those window locks you get for second-story houses in a magazine and thinking, "I think I'll stay in a single story home for as long as I have little kids". And maybe I'll get rid of the stove...and the bathtub...AAAARRRGGGHHH! What would we do without prayers, and priesthood blessings, and friends? I love you, lady - so glad everything is okay. Hug all your kids for me.

Kim and company said...

Hey Paige, that was certainly a miracle, we have friends in Vegas who 2 years ago had a very similar experience with their son, with a horribly tragic outcome. I'm glad yours was miraculous!

Megan said...

Oh my gosh! How scary!! How wonderful that it wasn't more serious! I'm so glad he is okay, and I hope you and the girls have recovered too!

Tobler Bunch said...

I believe in Angels now more than ever. What a miracle it is that he is perfectly fine! I was at the Tobler house when Michelle told us the news. We were all praying for you and thinking of you. What a scare? I am so grateful to Heavenly Father from having watched over him. Hugs and kisses.

Jules said...

Yikes! I'm so glad everything worked out okay. That's so scary! *Jules starts humming "Count Your Blessings"*

Amanda said...

After I read the first line- My heart totally dropped- that was the scariest thing I have ever read- I am so thankful that he is ok!

kam said...

Paige,
This is one of my biggest fears too. Oh my goodness. I am still shaking my head and in shock over this. So happy he is safe and ok. Thank Heaven for soft dirt! Kam

Alisa said...

just followed your link from Tasty Kitchen-
What a story- I am glad that you had such a positive outcome! Scary-