Jaren is stubborn. I believe I've mentioned that a time or twelve on this blog. Brian and I can't understand where he got it... must be from the mailman. Anyway... here's a recent example of his strong desire to get his own way.
Jaren has a blankie. It's one of those minky soft blankets with Winnie the Pooh on it. He HAS to have it when he sleeps. Once I thought I had left it in his crib for the babysitter. When we came home and asked how it went she said that Jaren had a really hard time falling asleep and cried for quite a while. We go upstairs and while I am turning off the light in the toyroom I see his blanket on the floor. I had another blanket thrown over the side of the crib and the sitter thought that must be the blanket I had left for Jaren. Poor kid was probably totally freaking out. But I digress.
This blanket is the ONLY blanket that Jaren will now permit to be in his crib. If it is cold and we try to cover him up with something else, he will gingerly pick up the blanket by the corners, as if it were some diseased slab of road kill that we had dared place on top of him, and move it to the side. Sometimes we will try to cover him up with something else while he is asleep and his blanket radar goes off and he will sit up, gingerly remove the offending foreign blanket, then lay back down and go to sleep. And he always lays ON his Winnie the Pooh blanket, so we can't usually access it.
Last night I thought I had won. I covered him up with a nice warm blanket before I went to bed. He was out cold and didn't wake up to move the covers (and his in footie jammies so he can't FEEL the blanket on his skin or anything). I went to bed confident that he would be warm for at least a few hours.
Fast forward to this morning. I go in there to wake him up so we can bring Jillise to school. He is sound asleep. The minute he pops his eyes open, he jumps to his feet and starts pointing to the ground and babbling about SOMETHING. I look on the floor and there is the other blanket I had used last night. At some point in the middle of the night, he woke up, realized what I had done, stood up, and threw the blanket out of his crib. And he had to make sure to tell me about it first thing, too. ExCUUUUUUUUUSE me.
In other news, Jaren is finally making animal sounds. He loves to sit and look at books with us, but it seems to be below him to make strange animal noises. He just looks at us and laughs when we moo like a cow or crow like a rooster. But today he was walking around with a picture of a monkey saying, "Eeeee Eeeee." Then he turned the page to the lion and started roaring. Thank goodness. Both girls could hold full conversations at this age (no, I am not exaggerating) and I am pretty confident that Jaren's brain is just fine but his darn stubbornness keeps him from showing us what he knows. Sigh. Boys.
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Oh Paige, I am so sorry! As the mother of a stubborn boy,( or two or three) I totally feel your pain. I do think it gets better once they start talking though, then they can let you know what they're thinking in "nicer" ways.
How cute! I know it must be frustrating, but you will laugh about it when he is older (make sur eyou save the blanket remnants and give it to him as a wedding gift when he gets married!)
Zach is my stubborn one and that is exactly what he did with talking. He was 2 before we could get much more out of him than "gink". We laugh about it all now but it was kind of frustrating after our little "chatterbox" Ethan.
Sounds just a *little* familiar:)
I'm pretty sure Jaren and my Sophia are the exact same age (July 2006) and i have had the same worries. My other girls were so conversant at this age, but she is not. I told the doctor how concerned I was and she told me if she has more than 3 words (at 18 months) that she is on track. And she has at least 30, which to me seems like nothing Just couldn't fathom after raising my other two chatterboxes.
She is rather good at saying NO! though. :)
Funny!!! I love how he woke up and had to take care of business right away and remind you that you just don't seem to be catching on to this blanket thing, as if he were saying to you "Mom, how many times are we going to have to go over this? Really, you're stressin' me out here!" I love it!!! He may not be talking as much as the girls did, but that boy is definitely observant ... he's fine ... and once he does start talking more I'm sure you'll discover that he has all sorts of things to go over with you :)
hee hee, I just love him!
Paige, I can totally relate! Peyton has her own special blanky that she can't live without, and she sleeps right on top of it or wraps it around her head, making it IMPOSSIBLE to go in and cover her up with after she falls asleep. She also hates it when I wash it. If I get it out of the dryer and it's the least bit warm, she is just completly disgusted. Isn't she supposed to be older when she starts acting so finicky??
So funny that he woke up first thing and had to tell you about that foreign blanket in his bed! He cracks me up :)
Megan has a similar fixation with her yellow blanket (you know, the one you see permanently attached to Jamie or my shoulder at church on Sundays). The other day she saw me put it into the washing machine and was mortified. She was inconsolible...she stood at the laundry room door and cried for an hour!
That is so funny! I cannot believe he awoke from deep slumber to pitch that blanket over the edge! That is so funny! It's kind of scarey, in a funny way, your in trouble. He has his mind set...
paige- gunnar has a blankie too, bobby. poor bobby looks like a very sick cancer patient, but he still comes with us wherever we go. he is currently at school with gunnar and will go with us to the doctor later. i had to laugh at your jaren story about his "bobby". thanks for the love you left on my blog. you are so sweet! thanks for keeping it a secret too. ;) i am grateful for you and the friendship you have always given me. let's talk soon- K
That is hilarious, at least form an outsiders view. Kasey is my stubborn one, but it usually has to do with toys or wanting mom's attention.
We have blankie issues here, too. My mom crocheted one for each of the kids when they were born, and Lily's is so well-used that it's falling apart. A couple of weeks ago we went to pick out a pattern and new yarn and I worked feverishly (at night) until it was done. She was so excited, until it was done and she realized her old blanks was going the way of the world. Since then she's found many reasons not to like the blanks I slaved over (it's too heavy, it's too yellow, it smells funny). Last night I hid the old one and she finally made it through the night without needing it. Sigh.
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